#grammys

The Grammys are touted as “Music’s Biggest Night.” And rightfully so. The awards beautifully showcase music from all genres, celebrating a variety of talent from across the globe.  Humans have been making music since the beginning of time, and for nearly as long, have been establishing ideas about what type of music is “good” and what is “bad.” For many years, the right to pass judgment on a piece of music was largely reserved for professionals and experts on the genre. Today, however, nearly anyone with a social media account feels entitled to pass judgment on nearly everything—the nature of the music world and the Grammys included. Last night was no exception.

Overall, televised awards shows beg for criticism. Stars dress to impress—or shock—and expect a social stir from the self-proclaimed fashion police. Build-up to the event pits nominees against each other as fans debate the reasons why his/her favorite star should win. And during the show fans utilize social media to celebrate wins and mourn losses; no one is safe from a fan scorned by defeat (“Ima let you finish…but Beyonce had one of the best albums of all time!”).

For the most part celebrities have gone years without taking part in this social banter—not being able to receive feedback from fans on their wardrobes or victories until they picked up the freshly printed tabloids the next day. However, times are changing. Celebrities not only receive immediate gratification (and verbal lashings) from fans and non-fans alike, this is even encouraged.   

Shortly after the beginning of last night’s telecast, Grammy host LL Cool J held up his cell phone and reminded the audiences in the theatre and at home to use #grammys when tweeting about the event, and the proceeded to read tweets live on the air throughout the night. This form of social integration is a fantastic move on the part of CBS: the fans at home become more invested in the telecast, therefore making them less likely to turn the channel. CBS’s ratings go up and that enables the network to make more money on ad sales.** For those of you who think using the #grammys hashtag was simply a way to incorporate those at home, I’m sorry, but it’s about the money.  It’s always about the money.

Regardless of the money factor, social integration into such a public event can be both positive and negative: Positive in the sense that the overwhelming sentiment on platforms such as Facebook and Twitter is in celebration of the honorees and their achievements, negative in the sense that self-proclaimed “experts” in the field always seem to pick fights with other social users whose ideas of what constitutes “good” and “bad” differ from theirs.

A common sight on #grammy night was the message reading something along the lines of: “(insert genre here) is the most real kind of music out there! Those of you who complain about it are just stupid!” Or, “(insert name of artist) writes the best songs! (insert name of other artist in same category) is a total sell out!” Many of you may laugh at the particular lack of substance in these messages, but unfortunately that’s how most of them tend to look. The ironic thing is that these users are doing the very thing for which they are condemning others: putting down someone’s preferred genre of music.

Again, it amazes me how everyone with a social account thinks that the world is entitled to hear his/her opinion. #grammy night, however, was particularly frustrating for me. I will make an effort in this blog to keep my often strong opinions to myself and just present the facts, but today I’m going to make an exception. Music is a universal language, that’s what is so special about it. Music can cross boundaries that typical words cannot. Music can make the listener feel something, believe something, express him/herself. Music in all forms is beautiful. Of course I don’t enjoy listening to every genre of music, very few people do. But I can appreciate what all genres of music provide for the individuals who listen to them. Diversity should be celebrated, although, unfortunately, it is not in many areas of the world. In my particular corner, I choose to celebrate difference. Those that put down others simply via social media due to their choice of music are perpetuating the very problem that they are pointing out. It’s intolerance. Musical intolerance. And while many of you may laugh and say, “It’s just music, what’s the big deal?” To many, music is an expression of self, whether that person is creating the music or simply listening to it. Musical experience is very personal.

I choose to use my position in the social sphere to celebrate talent and commend when commendation is due. The social sphere isn’t about me–it’s about everyone out there who is taking the time to read what I have to say. I have a duty to them to respect their opinions and expectations. I’m not going to use my social platforms to insult, but to empower. I hope that you will too.

**Noted: the 2013 Grammys were the second highest rated Grammys in 20 years, failing to compare only to last year’s tribute to the late Whitney Houston. Statistics for the night can be found here.**

the new casual dating.

With the recent fascination/news about the “Catfish” phenomenon, those who have never tried online dating are seemingly perplexed at the notion of meeting a potential significant other via the Internet.  For those who are unfamiliar with the term “catfish,” it refers to someone who has been somehow tricked by another person that he/she has met online. Recently the MTV television show ‘Catfish,’ former Notre Dame football student-athlete Manti Te’o’s alleged girlfriend, and a strange social media training exercise at the University of Michigan have brought this relatively new concept to the forefront of social networking news. How are people meeting each other online?  And why are people pursuing relationships with others that they have not met in person?

While many of these online relationships have blossomed from interactions on MySpace, Facebook or Twitter, a new iPhone app called ‘Tinder’ has graced the scene, seeking to change the notion of meeting a potential romantic interest via a social platform. The app, which launched in August of 2012, allows the user to either like or dislike other users of their preferred gender based on a maximum of five photos that have been pulled from Facebook. If both parties “like” the other’s photo, they are considered a “match” and may now message each other through the app.  If a match is not made, neither party is able to contact the other. The app is location based, and shows user photos based on proximity to each other.

The concept of Tinder is very similar to that of the website www.HotOrNot.com, which allows users to connect or not connect with other users based solely on photographs. Also like the website, Tinder users must chose to use the network, and by downloading they are registered to participate in the “selection process.”

The Tinder app is also reminiscent of the short-lived www.facemash.com, a website created by Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg during the fall of 2003. Facemash was a variation of the HotOrNot concept, adding the factor of faces that were familiar to the users. Facemash was created on the Harvard University campus, and used photos of female Harvard students, which were compared via the site. The Harvard men were ranking their female peers. The debacle that followed the launch of Facemash is well documented in the 2012 film The Social Network. An article that appeared in the Harvard Crimson after the 2003 event can be read here.

The Tinder app has brought the notion of online romance full circle, by allowing randomization within the boundary of geographical restraints. This also means that in many college towns, where the app is most popular, student users are predominantly ranking their peers. Just as there are no new stories, it appears that there are also no new ideas in digital match-finding.  

Across the board, young adults are entering into a potential online relationship with someone they assume is a peer who may or may not turn out to be who he/she claims. All of a sudden, with the introduction of this new app, alongside the pre-existing social platforms as well as the standard list of online dating website that includes eharmony and match.com, the catfish phenomenon is not so hard to imagine. The social lives of many teenagers and young adults revolve around social media, and many of the events of their lives are documented across these sites. 

  “We Lived on farms, then we lived in cities, and now we’re going to live on the Internet!” said Sean Parker, as portrayed by Justin Timberlake in The Social Network. The prophecy has come true. As Timberlake’s character learned the hard way in the film, anything and everything these days can be on the Internet in a matter of minutes. People relive parties via photos on Facebook and they connect with potential employers via LinkedIn, so why is it any surprise that dating has moved into the completely non-social world of social media? 

Twas the Night Before National Signing Day

The eve of National Signing Day can feel a lot like Christmas Eve for college football fans. The anticipation builds over those recruits who have been reluctant to give a verbal commitment, and coaches across the country are hoping to wake up to find just what they were hoping for: that sought-after recruit putting on a (enter name of school here) cap.

These days, however, social media has taken much of the surprise out of Signing Day. Similar to shaking a present in the days leading up to Christmas, trying to find out what is inside, coaches and fans are following recruits on Twitter to see if they can figure out what is going on in his head.

One of the biggest stories leading into National Signing Day is that of Robert Nkemdiche, ranked the No. 1 high school football player in America (as he will remind you if you visit his Twitter profile). Nkemdiche decommitted from Clemson in November, and remains the only member of the Top Ten to have avoided making an announcement about his decision.  Rumor HAD it that Nkemdiche was headed for Ole Miss, but Tweets from the weekend (@AceBoogie_001) revealed that he was in Louisiana visiting a different kind of tiger, and now LSU may very well be a strong contender in the game. With Nkemdiche touting more Twitter followers than any other ranked recruit this year (with 35,695 followers at the time of posting), it’s likely that his story will be the most talked about and followed in the social sphere come Wednesday morning.

To help college football fans navigate National Signing Day more easily, maxpreps.com posted a list of the Twitter handles of the top 100 recruits who are members of the social networking site. The list can be found here.

It will be interesting to see which recruits take to Twitter for the big announcement, and how they will do so.  Will it be a simple “I’m taking my talents to (fill in the blank),” or will they use Instagram to post a photo of themselves sporting a hat from their school of choice?  Only time will tell, but in light of all of the rumors regarding changing commitments following the post-college season coaching carousel, it’s sure to be an exciting day. Get your phone chargers ready, because I’m sure that Twitter feeds will be blowing up.

Whether you’re a coach, fan, teammate or some other-wise interested third party, dawn on Wednesday will certainly feel like Christmas morning.  The real question is, will you get everything that you asked for?  Or will the recruits have turned up their noses at your cookies and milk and left your tree lonely?

cksocial goes live.

Hi there– my name is Caitlin and if you’re interested in social media in any capacity, this site is for you. I’m a 20-something college grad who is making my mark in the world of social media, and I’ll be using this page to discuss the trends and trials that exist in the social universe.

I’m a young communications professional and I have plans to expand my network in the near future. If you’re interested in what I can do, I’d love to talk with you (cmkinser12@gmail.com).

Feel free to shoot me suggestions, ideas or opinions–just try to keep them on topic!

Peace out peeps!

-ck